成熟的十大標誌，有你嗎

成熟是一種狀態，當你突然意識到周圍發生的一切，能夠理解這些事情背後的緣由，不會因結果得意洋洋抑或一蹶不振，你就成熟了。你已經能夠化解壓力，不被周圍的環境所幹擾。看看下面的信號判斷一下自己成熟沒有吧：

　 listen more and talk less

　　多聽少說

When we realize as human beings we are built to hear more (because we havetwo ears) and speak less (we have one mouth/tongue); we gain more informationand whatever we speak will be based on substantial reasoning. This will providea glimpse of a thinking individual/rational person to the audience.

當我們意識到作爲人，我們需要多聽(因爲有兩個耳朵)少說(只有一張嘴/一根舌頭)，我們就能獲得更多的信息，說出的話也能基於靠譜的推斷，這會讓聽衆覺得這個人很有思想和邏輯性。

　 do not shy away from responsibilities

　　你不再羞於承擔責任

When you think in these terms, you behave in a more responsible manner. Younot only perform your duties for your family or country, you also take care ofmother earth. This makes you a matured individual on this planet。

當你這樣去思考問題，其實也就變得更加負責任了。你不僅在家庭或國家中承擔了你的職責，你還照顧到了我們的地球母親。這會讓你成爲更加成熟的人。

　　 are less argumentative and more accommodating

　　你不再那麼好辯

By arguing less, you are providing the required space and prestige toothers, and at the same time you are buying more time for yourself to look atthe other’s argument from another angle. And additionally, you command morerespect from others. This shows you are now a matured individual。

少辯論，也給別人提供了必須的空間和威望，同時你也能給自己爭取更多時間來從別的角度審視別人的觀點。除此之外，你還能從他人身上獲得更多的尊重。這也能表明你變得更加成熟了。

　 enjoy each season

　　你享受每個季節

There is a cycle of seasons and life forms adapt to that. No one cancontrol seasonal cycles and no one should control them. So if you are enjoyingchanges in season, however abrupt they might seem, you have grown into a maturedindividual。

季節的輪替就是這樣，我們生命早已習慣如此。沒有人可以控制季節的循環也不能去控制。所以如果你很享受季節的變換，不管變得多麼突然，你已經變得更成熟了。

　　 wear a smile on your face

　　臉上帶着微笑

Life is a topsy-turvy event. You plan for today in the morning, and by theafternoon you have to modify it to accommodate something unplanned. Whatever thesituation may be, wearing a smile has a positive impact on your body andmind.

生活總是出其不意的。你早上做了今天的計劃，下午有可能就需要爲一些未知事件修改計劃。不論情況如何，都帶着微笑，這樣能給身體和精神帶來積極的影響。

　 love children and elders

　　你尊老愛幼

Quite often, spending time with people who are not in your age brackethelps you visualize life in an entirely different manner. These moments, lateron, shall be counted in your experiences。

大部分時候，花時間和不同年齡段的人在一起能幫你更好的以全然不同的方式看待生活。這些時刻，不久之後都會成爲你的閱歷。

　　 save more than what you expend

　　你存的比花的多

This one does not need any detail explanation. Saving more than theexpenditures will itself lend credibility to your maturity status。

這一條不需要什麼具體的解釋了。存的比花的多毫無疑問是你成熟的最可靠標誌。

　　 indulge more in reading

　　你更多的時間花在閱讀上

To be updated is of utmost priority in today’s knowledge-driven probably one of the best ways to get informed is to read. If you arespending more time reading, this indicates you are serious about your businesswhich is a sign of maturity。

在當今這樣知識驅動的社會，適應是排在首位的。要想獲得更多的信息，最好的方式莫過於閱讀。如果你更多的時間花在閱讀上，這就意味着你對自己的事情更加上心，也是成熟的標誌。

　 take care of yourself as well as others

　　你照顧自己和別人

In the run of life, you may give less importance to yourself relative toyour family members. However, you must realize you are no less efore, you must take out time for yourself, and take care of your body andmind. This will, in turn lead to better performance in your duties which willrender you as a responsible and matured person。

在生命的長河中，也許你覺得家人會比自己更加重要。然而，你必須意識到你是獨一無二的。因此，你必須抽出時間來照顧自己，不僅身體還有思想。這能夠反過來促進你更好地履行責任，讓你成爲有責任心的成年人。

seek the signs of maturity

　　你試圖尋求成熟的標誌

You’re reading this article; this action itself shows you are serious aboutbeing considered mature. You now seem to shoulder your responsibilities and wantto know the meaning of your existence. Therefore, you are looking for things youshould know/do in order to become a responsible and mature citizen. This is asign of you now being a mature individual。

你在看這篇文字，這個行爲本身就代表你想要變得更加成熟。也許你想要承擔責任，想知道自己存在的意義。因此，你在尋求那些要成爲有責任成熟公民需要知道/做哪些事。這本身就說明你正在走向成熟。